Steps

First before you go to meet them at school, their house, anywhere etc.; you need to make sure your house is picked up if they are coming over, brush your teeth, comb your hair, 2 sprays only of cologne, and make sure you’re showered already. Girls love guys who smell great and are clean.

• Next wear decent clothing. You don’t need to wear a $200 tux, but you shouldn’t go with baggy pants or if you’re not into that, wear some nice casual pants and some nice shirts.
• A good outfit to consider is nice polos with popped collars, Henley’s, and all that along with nice cool looking jeans (limit the rips) or capris.
• Wear your hair short to medium length (fluff it, don’t spike it) and if you have facial hair, have some stubble (girls like stubble), sideburns, and a nice scruffy goatee. No moutaches or beards. Try to limit the hoodless and the button down shirts. Don’t overdo the hats and if you have a hat, wear real hats, not baseball caps all the time.
• As you go to meet her, build up confidence and courage inside your head and show it.
• Talk at a normal speed and speak up. Don’t mumble like “mmm..I.. uhhh…” SPEAK UP!!(don’t yell though). Be yourself and don’t act like a phony. Girls hate phonys. Use slang but don’t go overboard.
• Ask simple questions like, “What music do you like to listen to?”, etc. Questions are the easiest to ask, but don’t bombard her with them. They will feel stressed.

Tips

• If you bring some breath mints with you, DO NOT offer them to your ‘partner’ because that could make them feel bad as if you think that their breath ’stinks’.
• Don’t brag about yourself! It’s insulting to some girls
• Ask questions, but don’t go crazy with them.
• Always build up self confidence, courage and self-esteem.
• Dress decent. Not like a slob.
• Keep yourself clean at all times. You never know when she might call you and say she’s coming to see you.
• Keep track of your schedule at all times so that you know the times when you can go out with her.
• Let the girl talk about herself.
• Build some confidence by listening to some good girl promoting music. Country is the best genre, (it’s about beer and women) but if you don’t like country, listen to some R&B, pop, and postitive rock. Limit hip-hop and emo, and boy band stuff. Hip-hop is loud and emo is too depressing. Remember, R&B could be depressing as well.
• Don’t act too pimp… that turns off girls.
• Find some conversation starters by watching TV (even the history channel and discovery channel has interesting conversation starters; watch the news, especially MTV or E news, or Entertainment Tonight), browsing the web, reading books, magazines, and newspapers, and doing stuff.
• If she laughs at everything you say then she definitely likes you!

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